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This “learn by imitation” strategy means she can start a new project with nothing more than a vague plan, and—if she has good role models to look at—vastly outpace me at bringing it to fruition.
While an INFJ and INTJ’s personalities are similar, the minutiae of how we live our lives are almost completely different.
Together, we get to let our quirky sides out and indulge our flights of fancy—without giving up our generally organized lives.
They may have become heated—even though both people were “right” in some sense.INTJs primarily use Perspectives to forecast how a system will work, predicting problems before they arise and building elegant solutions long before they’re needed. INFJs, on the other hand, key in on a deep level to the people around them, reading what’s going on behind the scenes .An INFJ learns early in life to trust his or her gut feeling about someone they meet, while an INTJ views hunches with suspicion (often to their detriment).As an INTJ, it seems obvious to me that the “best” way to achieve any goal is to plan out the steps to reach it; the only potential downside is dragging your feet too long in the planning stage.
But with my INFJ, I’ve witnessed an amazing alternative approach: rather than studying, learning and planning before acting, she simply looks for people who are already succeeding and copies what they do.
As a result, when an INFJ and INTJ meet they can easily feel like it’s the first time anyone has truly understood them.