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Did she make you want to throw something across the room at her oversized head? There are many women out there who find that the ex-wife isn’t always the cool and down-to-earth person they hoped she’d be.
No matter how you feel about his previous squeeze, you can’t let on.
This also means you can’t jump into a “relationship” with him.
In other words no making room for his toothbrush or giving him his own drawer yet.
Don’t meet the kids right away; give the relationship with you and your guy time to bloom first.
Most divorcees come with miniature versions of themselves. Here are these little people with half your man’s DNA. His kids might look like him, but they’re still their own little people, and those people have feelings.
So, aside from being the “bigger man” in the situation, and in spite of any feelings your guy might have towards his ex, you have to be cool so she isn’t interfering with your relationship (and yes, even unknowingly being talked about behind her back is a form of inadvertently interfering in your relationship).
As a double divorcee, I can tell you that yes, there were times I made a lousy spouse, but there were times I was the perfect wife! My mother always says, “One man’s trash is another man’s treasure,” or, more delicately, just because he wasn’t right for one woman, doesn’t mean he isn’t perfect for you!
If you’re dating a man who has been divorced, chances are he’s had his heart ripped out by someone he held dear.
That usually means he’s not going to be in any rush to have it happen again.
Here are the 10 most important tips for a smooth relationship with a man who’s been divorced. When visions of your date as the assh*le husband dance through your head, just remember that divorces are rarely any different than the break-up of any other really long relationship; they’re just more expensive.
You can’t imagine his ex-wife as the bitchy, nagging psychopath either.Remember, ladies, there are three sides to every story: His side, her side, and what really happened.