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Change sometimes requires the help of someone trained to guide you.When Meredith* first started having sex her freshman year of college, she was insecure and naive, afraid she’d get dumped if each encounter wasn’t absolutely perfect for her partner. ” Has somebody ever said that to you—or several somebodies? Excellence means always doing your best and holding yourself to high standards while realizing that perfection is unattainable. We’ll gain freedom if we can learn that real worth is based on intrinsic qualities. Maybe no one needs to point it out because you are well aware of your perfectionism. Chances are that you are harder on yourself than others are. Easier said than done, for sure, but doing so provides a balanced and healthy perspective of who you are. The best antidote for feelings of failure is the vow to grow and learn from mistakes. Rachel Sussman, a relationship therapist in New York, told the Cut that she often sees couples that have at least one partner with perfectionist standards.Those men and women grumble that their partner gained five pounds, that they don’t dress up enough, or that they aren’t sexy anymore.
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