Being unattractive is playing the dating game on hard mode
When I don’t “fulfill the stereotype,” people (and especially guys) are always “surprised” that I’m articulate and have a creative mind, which makes me even more depressed about dating. in the last three months (it’s always been difficult for me to lose weight).
I’m also overweight (I have been my whole life), and I’ve been nearly starving/killing myself in the gym to get rid of the massive amount of weight I need to lose (the doctor says I have 100 lbs. I’m sick of bothering my friends every time I want to do something.
Give it to me straight: is it possible that I’m just not attractive enough to find someone?Adaptational Attractiveness, Beauty Inversion, I'm Not Pretty, Beautiful All Along, Cool Loser, Hollywood Dateless, Hollywood Nerd, and Hollywood Pudgy.Contrast Informed Attractiveness and Gorgeous Gorgon. I’m very different looking, so being too unattractive to date wouldn’t surprise me that much.
Let's say a storyline requires a character who is unappealing, unattractive, and has a hard time finding dates.
Characters are made "plain" by giving them thick glasses, braces, freckles, unfashionable clothes, an unflattering hairstyle, and surrounding them with people who are more attractive.